Homemaking

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We got a new couch at Ikea a couple of weeks ago.  It’s the first major furniture purchase we’ve made since we moved into our home in Michigan in 2003, when we got a bed and a dining room set.  Those purchases cost as much as a small car, so we quickly ran out of money!

We’ve been surviving on hand-me-downs and my old Ikea stuff from 1997 ever since.  Furniture just seems so expensive that we put off buying new things until we absolutely have to.  I still miss my old, ugly green Ikea chair-and-a-half, with matching ottoman.  Adam and I sat on it together every single night in front of the TV until we had to literally duct-tape it together, just like Martin Crane.  I learned to breastfeed Sam in it.  In this hilarious video from when Sam was about 5 months old, she is lying on the ottoman, which is covered with a blanket to hide the duct-tape:

The new couch is promising.  It works well in our living room.  I like the way it separates my desk area from the rest of the room.  It has a removable, microfiber slip cover that can be washed in my washing machine.  We bought two covers – the sand color you see here, and the purple you see in the pillows.  There’s already a ball-point pen stain on it that I’m not so sure will come out in the wash.  But that just means that we’re breaking it in.  I hope we’ll love it as much as that ugly old green furniture.

Couch

After my dad fixed the inner workings of three out of our four toilets, we got motivated to replace the seats, too.  Three were chipped and disgusting just like this one:

Old toilet seat

The fourth, in the powder room on the main level, was wood, which I think is wrong on so many levels:

Wood Seat

 

To replace them, we got 2 of these awesome kids’ seats:

Kid Seat

The smaller seat folds up into the lid and is held there by a magnet.  We put one of these in the powder room and one in Sam’s bathroom.  Hopefully she’ll start using them soon. (Arg!)

Then for the other 2, we got the “Whisper Close” seats.  Check it out:

It may seem like a gimmick, but we always keep the lids shut to keep the animals out, and in the middle of the night that small luxury is welcome, indeed.  It’s a Little Thing.

My dad designed and built his own house, so he knows a thing or two about home maintenance and repair.  Every time he visits, we hit him up for a project or two, so of course, with our huge task list here at the new house we figured he could help with a few things.  I think he ended up cutting a year off of that 10-year-plan.  Here is what he did in the 12 days he was here:

  • Replaced the flappers on two toilets, and the valve mechanism on a third.  We now have four properly working toilets instead of just one!
  • Adjusted two bifold closet doors so they close properly.
  • Diagnosed a big problem we have with our upstairs windows, giving us a solution that we can do ourselves instead of replacing the windows completely.  (Do you know about weep holes?  Make sure you have some.)
  • Manufactured two supports for my desk shelf out of PVC pipe and rubber feet.  It was a really cool, creative solution.
  • Fixed two kitchen drawers that were out of alignment and not operating smoothly, and taught me how to fix them in the future.
  • Adjusted a few of our drain stoppers in the sinks, which were not working at all.
  • Reversed the postion of the light and fan switches in our master bath. (Don’t you hate it when somebody puts the fan switch closest to the door when everybody knows that the light switch goes there?)
  • Reversed the direction of a dimmer switch in a bedroom which had been installed upside-down, so that you had to push it down to turn on the light. (What kind of idiot makes a mistake like that and then just leaves it that way?)
  • Fixed a recessed light fixture in the basement.  It was just loose, but we probably would have hired an electrician.
  • Installed a screen over one of our gutters, not to keep out the leaves, but to stop the rain from dripping from the roof directly onto the metal in one particular spot right outside of our bedroom, which had woken me up countless times.  We’re supposed to get some rain soon so I can find out if that solved the problem.  This was another really creative solution to a small but annoying problem.
  • Gave us a guess as to what might be wrong with our water heater, which doesn’t seem to work well.  (He says it might be calcium deposits and we could try to drain it.)
  • Re-installed the damper in our ductwork that allows us to close off the flow to the top floor.  The handle had broken off of it and he had to open up the ductwork and manufacture a handle and another part to fix it.
  • Fixed a leak in our basement laundry sink.

I think there might have been a couple of other things that came up along the way, but that was what I noted on my list.  He also bought all the parts for us as our housewarming gift.  Awesome!

Adam and I didn’t do too badly these last two weeks either.  I installed a paper towel holder, completed the grout-cleaning project, and fixed the garbage disposal when some kind of metal got wedged in it.  Adam installed the new chandelier in our “dining room” which is really the eat-in kitchen.  The old ceiling fan was literally falling apart.  One light was hanging by the wires, and one of the glass shades just fell off onto the table one day.  Besides, it was ugly as hell.  We bought the new fixture to match the kitchen we plan to create, not the one we have now, so it’s a bit out of place.  (We’re going for the Art Deco look.)  We also gave up the ceiling fan for the sake of style.  Still, it’s quite an improvement.  Here are the before and after photos:

Dining Room Light Before

Dining Room Light Before

 

Dining Room Light After

Dining Room Light After

Adam and I are finally getting back in the habit of working on the house.  We did a great job unpacking and making repairs until we went to Florida for Christmas, but then Adam started a new semester, we got sick, and other projects seemed to get in the way.  We did a few things, but our momentum was lost.

A couple of weeks ago, we prioritized the list of home improvements we want to make.  It’s probably a 10 year plan, and it comprises 71 tasks – things that range from repairing two toilets, to finishing unpacking, to remodeling the entire kitchen. 

Having a prioritized list really kick-started our efforts.  Last weekend we hung most of our art.  Adam has always been a stickler for getting this done quickly after a move, so the fact that it took us 5 months shows you how busy we were this winter.  I had forgotten how many nice prints we have, and having them on the walls makes it feel like home. 

I’ve managed to continue cleaning the house.  I don’t mean the daily chores like cleaning toilets and mopping the floors, but things like scrubbing walls and baseboards with a stiff brush.  This house was just filthy and disgusting when we moved in.  I’m still finding long, dark hairs stuck to doors and walls.  Nobody in our family has long, dark hair.  Ewwwww.

I’m just about finished with a project I started in March:  cleaning the tile grout on my kitchen floor.  I use OxiClean and a scrub brush and it’s quite a workout.  I can’t do the whole thing in one go since I have fractured time, so I’ve been doing small sections.  I think I’ve done about 15 sections at 1-2 hours apiece.  But here is the difference it makes:

Elbow Grease

 

I really love owning a home.  I love making it better, bit by bit.  I love my long list of things to do.  Sometimes I get stressed out about all the money it will take to accomplish what we want to do, but then I remember that we don’t have to do all of these things right this instant.  Even if we had all the money we needed, it would still take a few years to get it all done.  And doing these things is fun.  I enjoy it.  Holy cow – I actually enjoy the process!

I’ve come a long way since last year, when I wrote about my time sickness.  Good job, me!

Did you know that you’re supposed to clean the lint screen on your clothes dryer?  I don’t mean pulling the lint off each time you use it – I mean that you’re supposed to wash it with soap and water every 6 months.

As suggested, I checked mine and water passed through it very slowly, so I guess it did have a film built up over it that was impeding air flow.  I cleaned it and the water ran right through.  I think it has reduced drying time but it’s hard to tell for sure.  I need to try drying a load with the sensor – you know, “more dry/less dry.”  The sensor function hasn’t worked so I’ve  just been using the “timed dry” function, which was really annoying when I guessed the wrong amount of time needed and came back to a moldy load 3 days later. 

It took 5 minutes to clean the screen.  The hardest part was that it took a few weeks for the thought of cleaning it to coincide with being in the mood to do it and not having a load of laundry that needed to get in the dryer asap.

I never saw this object before in my life, until I pulled the clothes out of the washer to put them in the dryer.  It was in there, in the washer with my clothes.  I actually looked around for the hidden camera after I stopped freaking out.

In the laundry

In case you can’t tell, that is a rubber glove stuffed with rice and tied together.  WTF!  How did this get into my laundry?  Rubber gloves make me think of hypodermic needles and sick people and other dirty things.  But stuffed with rice?  My mind just couldn’t get around that.

After a few minutes, I started looking at all the clothes that were in that load.  Samantha’s blanket from day care was in there.  I had picked it up on Friday to bring home and wash, and I never shook it out but just shoved it in the washer.  I think this must have been some craft project they did at school that got mixed into Sam’s stuff.  I meant to ask the teachers today, but I forgot, and now I have to keep wondering until Wednesday.

I could write a really funny post tonight about all the bad things that happened today, but the whole point of this Three Good Things exercise is to help me stay focused on the positive.  Still, throughout the day, I’ve been blogging all these crazy moments in my head: diarrhea on the walls, dog eating cat poo, dog puking in back yard, cat escaping the house, girl puking on the kitchen floor and then slipping and falling in it, getting the cat out from under the basement stairs with a broom (classic!), cat turning over trash can to get to empty dog food can, empty trash can sitting on our front porch since last Tuesday because we’ve been too sick to bother bringing it in, girl puking on my leg, girl having diarrhea as I’m putting ointment on her diaper rash, and, well, I guess I cheated by writing all of that.  Sometimes it helps more to write about the bad things.  Still, I’m sure there are Three Good Things.  Here it goes:

  1. I caught up on my sleep for the first time in a week and was able to handle most of the day without losing my temper or my good attitude.
  2. I vacuumed the entire house, which was quite an accomplishment on a day like today.
  3. Samantha climbed up on her chest of drawers.  She is definitely in a physical developmental stage, doing things that I understand most kids do when they are about 14 months old.  She pooped all over the wall and the drawers about 30 seconds after I took this photo:
Proud Climber

Proud Climber

Short Desk

Short DeskI’m 5’4″ tall.  I’m short, but not tiny.  Still, a standard 30″ desk is way too high for me.  Raising the chair just leaves my feet dangling, and I’ve never found a footstool that works without sliding around and getting in the way.  Chairs are always too deep for my short thighs but it’s hard to sit forward in a chair without the counterweight of the floor for your feet to push on.

I needed a new desk anyway, suitable for our living room/library, so I decided to design something that would really work for me.  I’m very proud of the results.

First, we had this perfect corner in the room with a 4 foot long wall – just the right size for a workspace.  For the desk, I got a tabletop with adjustable legs from Ikea.  The desktop is 25.75″ high and my chair is at the lowest setting.  The arms of the chair just barely slide under the desk.  When I sit and type, my forearms and thighs are parallel to the floor and my feet are flat on the floor.  I pull my chair forward and sit up straight just because it feels natural and comfortable – something I’ve never experienced before.  I’ve put my monitor on a wall mounted shelf, also from Ikea, so that it is right at eye level.  There is just 2″ of space between the desk and the bottom of the shelf, but it’s enough to slide my keyboard under the shelf so I have a nice, big area to write with pen and paper when I need to.

Next to my desk is another Ikea piece:

Ikea Stockholm

It’s supposed to be an entertainment stand, but I use it to hold my printer, stationary, and all that miscellaneous stuff you need by your desk like paper clips and stamps.  The hole in the bottom that is supposed to be for your TV cables is perfect for the printer connection.  But it also serves another purpose – we needed a long, low storage unit to block off the drop into the sunken foyer (the banister had been removed prior to our moving in).  Since you see the back of it when you walk in the front door, it also had to have a finished back, which is rare with inexpensive furniture.  We searched long and hard for this one.  It is modern, sleek and stylish and serves all of these functions perfectly.  It gives me such pleasure just to see it every day.

I also have a bookcase (from Ikea, of course) mounted above my desk for my papers and other storage.  I need to get a couple of baskets to slide onto the shelves to hold mail and stuff to be filed, but then the setup will be complete.

I’ve been using this arrangement for a couple of weeks now and it was well worth the effort of designing it, finding the pieces that would work, and setting it up.  It’s been so long since I’ve been able to do things like this – to make my living space work for me, and to look good too.  When you rent and move around a lot, you just make do.  A functional and comfortable workspace is the kind of Little Thing that I love to surround myself with.

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. I had groceries delivered to my door.  I have to admit, that is one nice thing about living in a big city again.
  2. Adam picked up Samantha from day care today, and the moment she walked in the door she said MOMMY in the most precious, excited voice.  That’s a rare treat for me.
  3. Funniest and scariest link of the day (ok, so she posted it yesterday) goes to Rational Jenn.  Reading the reviews of the Playmobil Security Checkpoint toy gave me hope for the future of this country.  If that many people can recognize authoritarianism in the TSA, AND be that funny about it, we’ll be ok.  Well, maybe not.

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. Adam was kind enough to install the final piece of my awesome workspace: the wall-mounted bookcase.  I now have a functional and comfortable place to waste time on Facebook.  I’ll be bragging more about this later this week.
  2. For the first time ever, Samantha answered a stranger who asked her name.  Sure, she pronounced it SEBIE, but she answered!
  3. I didn’t have to clean the kitchen floor today.

 

Three Good Things for the day: 

  1. I got in a miserable funk because the dog tracked dirt onto my white ceramic tile kitchen floor – AGAIN.  This led to another pass at organizing Samantha’s closet, unpacking all of her music boxes and stuffed animals, hanging her alphabet finger puppets, hanging her height mirror (I’ll have to post a picture of that), vacuuming and Fabreezing the area rugs, rearranging the furniture in the basement, oh, and yes, cleaning the kitchen floor – AGAIN.  The good part was not so much that I got all of that stuff done, but that I forced myself to stop moping about how much cleaning and unpacking still needs to be done, and just started taking action.  I know, I know, you’re supposed to learn that when you’re about 14, but I’m slow. 
  2. Part of the reason I was able to get so much done today, besides the motivation through despair, was that I finally decided that Samantha knows how to handle the stairs.  I was partway there when I decided to let the dog out without bringing her with me, but I would normally still go up and down with her, just below her on the stairs in case she fell.  I’ve been doing that ever since she started climbing up and down stairs on her own, and I think I’ve only had to catch her twice, and not for a while.  Today I told her she could come up and down with me as she pleased, and she did.  Sometimes she would stay upstairs and follow me after a few minutes, or she might not follow at all.  As with every milestone, it feels like another huge weight lifted from my shoulders.  The freedom was intoxicating, I tell you!
  3. Adam comes home in just a few hours.

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. Adam is out of town on business so Sam and I had pizza for dinner.
  2. Sam was able to hold the handle for the vacuum cleaner and push it forward and back the whole length of our bedroom.  I’ll have maid service soon!
  3. It was 10 degrees for most of the day and I didn’t go outside once.

Why do I need to lower my thermostat when it is colder outside? 

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. Sam met a dog named JoJo who reminded her of her grandparents’ dog, Honey.
  2. I cleaned my hardwood floors with Murphy’s Oil Soap for the first time since we moved in and I’ve been admiring how beautiful it looks all day. 
  3. I’m about to go pour myself a glass of wine and chuckle about this for the rest of the evening.

I really like the interesting design of blogger Michelle Mitchell’s remodel:


Our Home Remodel Is Finished from Michelle Mitchell at Scribbit on Vimeo.

What a great way to expand the existing rooms and bring in tons of natural light.  At first I didn’t like the way the addition looked from the outside, but once I saw the function of it on the inside, I grew to like the view from outside as well.  And aren’t those light fixtures the best? 

I’m also impressed with the way this family uses their space.  The house is not very large, and there are four kids living there!  Michelle also blogs, bakes, and does tons of crafts from that house.  I hope to be so organized some day.

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