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Sam and I put together the Decanomial Square over the past 2 weeks. (Yes, it took 2 weeks with all the sick days in between.) As we went along, I asked her to use her Multiplication Finger Chart and to count the beads for some multiplication problems. She checked her answers on her new calculator. (She trusts that calculator more than she trusts her multiplication control chart, and definitely more than she trusts me.) I never saw any kind of “aha” light bulb, though. Then we finished the Decanomial Square and I didn’t want to put it away, so I thought I’d introduce her to the concept of “squares,” even though I didn’t think she’d really get it.

Here is the built Decanomial Square:

Since she didn’t do the greatest job making things neat and square, I was a little lost about how I’d talk about squares. And she was getting kind of tired of doing problems and counting the beads. I ended up pulling out a sheet of graph paper and drawing squares and rectangles to remind her of the difference between them. Again, I couldn’t really tell if she was getting anything out of it. I let her color in the shapes. I counted the length of the sides. Nothing seemed to be getting through. Then, I tried counting the graph paper boxes within the shapes (which we called “units”), just like we’d count the beads from the Decanomial Square to get the area of each shape (although I didn’t introduce the word “area”). I wrote the numbers in the boxes, left to right, top to bottom (consistent with how we were working the Decanomial Square). Then we counted the appropriate beads and got the same answer. Then she did the multiplication problem on her calculator and got the same answer. Finally, I got my “aha” moment. Somehow, that made it all clear to her and Sammy was thrilled! Again, it took doing two exercises at the same time, one just a level more abstract than the other, to get the concept through.

 

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. Leo is totally into animal sounds. The only one he can really make is a dog’s “woof,” which is adorable because of the way he purses his lips. (His little mouth is one of my favorite parts of him.) But today I discovered that he wants to know all the animal sounds. We have one of those speak-and-say things and he just couldn’t get enough of it tonight.
  2. I got to play on a Wii at physical therapy today.
  3. This didn’t happen today, but I’m still rejoicing about finding two incredibly important things for Sam this weekend. First, I found a homeschool Brownie troop for her. Then, I signed her up for an extracurricular course at an “enrichment center” which offers a la carte classes to homeschooled kids. I didn’t care much what class it was – I just wanted to get her in so that we could start building a network of homeschool friends. Then I found out that both the troop and the school were founded by the same woman. We spoke on the phone for 45 minutes because we couldn’t stop discovering all the things we had in common. I think these two things have the potential to fill the social gap that we have as homeschoolers. Sam really needs a group of kids she sees regularly, in a relatively unstractured setting. Most kids get this from school or church. They see the same group of kids day after day, week after week, year after year. We do have our neighborhood, but now that all the kids Sam’s age are going to the same school, she is an outsider. She is also on a very different schedule than most of them. And extracurriculars are too structured to allow for making real friends (and enemies). The woman who started the Brownie troop and the school had the same things in mind for both, and miraculously (irony intended), they are both secular! The Brownie troop meets weekly instead of twice a month, and there is a lot of unstructured time (as well as very cool field trips). The enrichment center only offers classes on Wednesdays, but it goes on all day in a huge facility, so there are tons of kids there at the same time, and there is a lounge where the parents and kids can hang out, plus a huge play area outside. Sam will be taking a class called “Engineering Extreme Structures” for 1-3rd graders, which seems like a joke to me (she’s never even built anything out of Legos), but we plan to spend part of each Wednesday hanging out there. I will be so happy if this works for us because otherwise, I’ll have to try to build a group of kids on my own. There really is nothing else here in NOVA if you are not religious. And Sam really, really misses her friends from school.

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. I picked up the RAV4 from the shop today. It was mine before we got the Odyssey, and I miss it – it’s a great car. It was nice to get a chance to drive it, and to have it back.
  2. I saw a dude with a Sheldon-inspired t-shirt today and we had a great conversation about Big Bang Theory. Then we moved on to Modern Family, The Amazing Race, and Survivor. I convinced him to try How I Met Your Mother. Sharing values, what a pleasure.
  3. On the way home from gymnastics, I did the mom-of-a-million-questions routine: “Did you have fun? Did you do anything new? What exercises did you do? Did you like your teacher? What friends did you see there?” Sam responded halfheartedly for a while then said, “Can you just stop talking? It’s a little bit boring.” It was said with no malice – just a tiny bit of annoyance. I happily said, “Yup” and shut my big mouth. I love it when she tells it like it is. Kids are the best.

Adam:  Sammy, you’re so much fun we’re going to make another one.

Sammy:  MAKE ANOTHER ONE!  MAKE ANOTHER COOKIE!

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. I had the best day with Sammy that I’ve had in weeks.  My good idea seems to be working.  Hint: it involves a whiteboard.  I’ll write about it tomorrow.
  2. I tried cooking my vegetables in chicken fat for the first time tonight and it was delicious. 
  3. Sammy had a 2.75 hour nap today, and I slept for 2 hours myself.  Enough said.