March 2009

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The Spirit of Radio by Rush gives me the exact feeling that the lyrics extol, especially when it comes up on my iPod unexpectedly!

Is it Thursday already?  Here is the latest Objectivist Round Up, hosted this week by Titanic Deck Chairs.

My husband Adam’s paper on the sewing machine is also up at his SSRN site.  Click “download” to read the whole paper in PDF format.  As I wrote before:

It’s called, “A Stitch in Time: The Rise and Fall of the Sewing Machine Patent Thicket,”  and it’s a great story about the numerous inventions that went into the development of the sewing machine in the 1840’s and 50’s.  The conflicting claims to the intellectual property resulted in a huge legal battle later called the “Sewing Machine War,” but the result was a new market solution: a privately formed patent pool that allowed each member to benefit from his contribution to the whole product.  The purpose of the paper is to dispute the idea that patent thickets are a modern phenomenon which require the reduction of property protection lest we hinder innovation.  It’s a pretty easy read, for a scholarly legal article.  

Whenever I mention to Sam that something is broken, she says, DADDY FIX IT.  Today, even my offhand comment that her car seat straps were twisted got a call for daddy.  It’s nice to have a daddy around.

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. Samantha had a really good day at day care.  She didn’t cry or cling onto me when I dropped her off and she got to go to the playground twice.
  2. I saved over $30 on my dog’s flea and heartworm meds because my new vet matches any price you find on the internet.  I love saving money.  Can I spend it on something now?
  3. I’m about to pour myself a glass of wine and watch American Idol.  Go, Danny Gokey!

I just mailed the check to secure Samantha’s spot in the Montessori school we chose.  I can’t wait for her to start.  And it turns out, I don’t have to.  They have a toddler program.  Starting Wednesday, once a week for 7 weeks, Sam will go to Montessori with me for about an hour and a half.   This is the perfect reason to reduce her day care time to 2 half days per week, which I’ve been wanting to do anyway to save money and also because I just don’t like this new day care as much as her first one.

I wish we could attend the Montessori program right before the school year starts, but they don’t have any summer programs at this school.  Still, it’s a good way for her to get used to the environment, and I’ll bet that I get some good ideas for nurturing her independence at home.  Speaking of which, check out this video (HT: Principled Parent) of a 20-month-old being raised by two Montessori-trained parents.  It’s a bit long but if you’ve never seen young toddlers acting this way, you might need the time to pick your jaw up off the floor.

I took notes, and here are the things I might try at home:

  • Put Sam’s mattress on the floor.  We were just about to go from crib to toddler bed, so I’ll consider this option. 
  • Put a step near her dining chair with booster seat so that she can climb up and down herself.  I’ve been struggling with how to help her do this independently, but I never thought of a stool for some reason.  (Sam is probably the same size as the 20-month-old in the video, so she is just too small to do many things kids her age normally do.)
  • Set up a pitcher of water and cup on a low shelf in the kitchen for her to get her own drinks.  She is really bad at pouring so this will be good practice.
  • Get her a backpack.  If a 20-month-old can carry one, even little Sam can too.

We’ve also always struggled with washing hands.  Sam loves to wash her hands and hates it when we help, but she can’t reach any sinks in the house, even when on a high stool.  I have to pull out the retractable faucet in the kitchen and she gets very angry about that.  (And when the sink is full of dirty dishes she just doesn’t get to wash her hands at all).  When we visited the Montessori school, we realized all we have to do is to set out a bowl of water, soap, sponge, and towel.  Sometimes you just don’t see the obvious solution!

One other thing I would note from that video:  I would never spend the amount of time necessary for Sam to “help” me in the kitchen as much as Edison did.  I try to let her help in ways that actually help me.  I’ll do a little extra work, like helping her wash her hands after cracking an egg, or asking her to get things for me from the cabinets, but spending that kind of time would be a sacrifice for me.  (I really have to finish my introductory post on Selfish Parenting.)  At a certain point, it feels very forced to let a child “help” when they are not really helping.  Edison seemed to do a good job, but when I’ve had Sam do similar things she just wants to play with the food.  She’ll help me wipe and dust and sweep all day, but when food is around she just wants to rub it all over her face.  Maybe that’s just a difference in different kids, but I’m not going for that one.

Mysteries

Why do parenting books and web sites tell you all the things you need to do to “baby-proof” your house, but make no mention of when you can remove all of that safety stuff?  I know it depends on the child, but really, I have no idea if I should still be pinning up the blind cords or keeping all the outlets covered.

Taking down the baby gates on the stairs and letting Sam go up and down at will led her to finally work on walking instead of crawling on the stairs.  (She can climb up without a handrail or even a wall for balance now!)  We also stopped locking up sharp objects (except razors) and only keep medicine and chemicals safely out of reach.  She has learned to be careful with sharp objects.  I’m not sure if there is any independence to be gained from the other things, though.

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. Samantha and I had a nice playdate/visit with an old friend who lives in the area.  She has 3 kids, the baby being just 3 months old.  Even though I recorded them and wrote about them, I had forgotten what those baby giggles sounded like.
  2. Sam and I went to the playground today and somebody had made a big circle on the blacktop using the mulch from the play area – about 8 feet in diameter.  I didn’t even notice it until Sam pointed and said CIRCLE! CIRCLE! PEE-PO MAKE CIRCLE!  She seems to know that people make things like that, which is pretty cool.  
  3. I got a “birthday card” from somebody telling me that I’d won a contest.  It had balloons on it that said, “Happy Birthday, Amy.”  Sam sees balloons all the time and can say “balloon,” but when she saw the card, she said, HAPPY BIRTHDAY.  I think she is sight reading.

Between the sculpture we have in our living room and the memorial, Samantha now thinks all statues of men are Thomas Jefferson.

Well, I’m breaking my own rules by spending even more time on the food issue, but there is something that is bothering me.  While responding to comments on my earlier post, I realized that I may have implied something in my last post that I didn’t intend. 

A very popular Objectivist blogger, Diana Hsieh, posts a lot about food issues on her blog, and I’m not sure she would call herself a follower of the Paleo diet, but she has certainly referred to it on NoodleFood and her diet is similar.  Since we share quite a few readers, I want to state that my earlier post was in no way meant to insult her or her beliefs about food.  I do not think she is anti-man.  As a matter of fact, her blog is a big part of what has inspired me to look at my diet more carefully, and I think she has done the same for many others.  Thank you, Diana!

I don’t agree with all of Diana’s choices, and she does take much more care about what she eats than I do, but I do not consider her neurotic and I would hate to think that I implied that by not being more specific.  As she wrote recently in a post about the same article I referred to, many food choices are good or bad for an individual.  I wholeheartedly agree.  As I said in my post, most of my convictions are formed from my own personal experience with food and how my own body reacts.   I need to put more thought into what I eat than most people do, and apparently, so does Diana.  Still, I believe very few foods are “bad” for everyone and that moderation is indeed a good principle as regards food, whereas I think Diana takes a much stricter approach and finds much more of the research to be credible than I do.

Since many of my readers read NoodleFood as well, I just realized that people might have thought I was referring to her, and that it was unfair to be so critical about this issue without mentioning Diana and the overall good influence she has had on me, even if we aren’t in agreement on the issue.  She certainly knows a lot more than I do about the latest studies in nutrition and she is one of the few writers whom I respect enough to even bother reading a post from about food.   Her link to the Gary Taubes article is what really convinced me to work harder to avoid unnecessary carbs.  While responding to a comment on my prior post, I realized that my main experience with the Paleo diet came from a doctor I saw who held the position that diet was responsible for all health problems.  I did some research through that doctor’s resources (and one other person who followed the diet) and I found none of it credible and much of it to be disgusting propaganda.  So that’s what I was thinking about and referring to when I was writing.

I reject the Paleo diet, as a whole.  And to clarify some confusion in the comments:  I think the diet is anti-man because, at least from what I’ve seen, the promoters are against modern foods because they are man-made, and will attach all kinds of other anti-progress, anti-business garbage to the diet.  I do not necessarily think that anybody who follows the diet is anti-man, just as I don’t think all environmentalists are anti-man, but the idea of environmentalism is.  I’ll take the parts of the diet that make sense to me based on the knowledge that I have, which includes the knowledge that just about everything we’ve ever been told by scientists about nutrition has been reversed later.

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. I have a good doggie.  I took him to the vet and he obeyed me and won over every person he met with his happy face and waggy tail.  The animals have been kind of annoying lately so it was nice to have a good experience with one of them.
  2. We ran our air conditioner for the first time.  It worked.  We’re not sure how long it will last, but it works for now.
  3. Samantha stood in the shopping cart and handed me each grocery item so I could run it through the scanner.  She loves to participate and it’s so darn cute.

Today, Kim’s Play Place hosts the first ever Academy of Science and Technology blog carnival, where ”we can share our experiences teaching and mentoring science and technology with children.”  By the number of submissions, this looks like it will be a successful endeavor. 

If you’re a homeschooler or you just like to supplement your children’s science education, take a look!  There are also incredible photos of the Ring Nebula and Saturn using a 10″ telescope.  Awesome!

The next grassroots effort at protesting the draining of our wealth through regulation, taxation, and inflation is to send letters to your representatives tomorrow, March 10, in honor of the 10th Amendment to the Constitution.  Here is what I will send tomorrow.  Feel free to copy and paste if you like.

On this March 10th, in honor of the 10thAmendment to our Constitution, and inspired by Rick Santelli, I am writing to express my disapproval for every action my government has taken in response to the financial crisis.   The economy needs to be liberated, not stimulated.  Let the free market work and stop redistributing wealth under the guise of “recovery.”  What the government is doing is worse than a moral hazard; it is a moral outrage!

A couple of people asked for more details on the conversation I had with friends the other night about whether it is possible that there is extraterrestrial life, or whether that claim is arbitrary.  It’s hard to write anything coherent to summarize a conversation that had no real conclusion (especially since I am the one with the most confusion on the issue).  I can, however, present what I recall in an unstructured way, which is how a conversation goes.  I hope it is intelligible.

We all agreed that ET life would be arbitrary if there was no evidence for it – if it is just pure speculation.  But the real sticking point is the question of what constitutes evidence.  Does one instance of something imply that there might be other instances (life on earth=POSSIBILITY of life elsewhere)?  No, I think we all agreed. 

We went through some history about how humans did not even have evidence for planets outside of our solar system until about 10 years ago.  We knew we had planets in our solar system, we knew there were other stars, but there was no direct evidence for extra-solar planets at all until very recently.  How could one consider it possible that there is life elsewhere when you there is not yet evidence of a planet for that life to live on.  Well, I did, but I’m not sure it was justified.

What if we found evidence of life on a body in our own solar system, past or present?  Would that be evidence for possible life outside of our solar system? Or would it only apply to our solar system?  (Actually, I don’t think we discussed that the other night, but I’ve discussed it with Adam before.)

Now that we do know there are other planets, does that move ET life into the realm of the possible?  Adam says no, that you still need to have evidence that there is at least one other earth-like planet.  What we know is that life happened here.  It hasn’t happened on any other body in our solar system as far as we know.  The laws of causation tell you that there must be certain conditions required for life, and all we have to go on is what happened here.  But we don’t even understand the “how” here.  Still, if we found another planet that had x,y, and z conditions (which we are not qualified to name) then we would at least know that there was a second place where conditions made life possible.  (Earth could be unique, after all.)  But another thing we realized is that we’re not even sure scientists today could fill in the x,y, and z above.  Humans might not even know what would constitute evidence in this case, let alone have that evidence.

But now that we know there are extra-solar planets, we thought that it is now within the realm of the possible that there is another earth-like planet.  And I’m still not sure why we can’t go one step further and say that if that is possible, then so is ET life.  But both K. and Adam agreed that you can’t skip a step – that possibilities are not evidence.  That does make sense to me, but I still fight it.  Something is still missing for me here.

I think a big part of my problem is that I buy the argument of numbers and time.  It rings true to me that the amount of planets (although we really do not have a good idea of how many there are yet) and the amount of time in the universe allow for so many possibilities, that the idea that earth is unique seems far-fetched.  However, K. brought up that if you play with the actual formulas for the possibilities, it is easy to make it come out that there are more variables required than planets in the whole universe, and earth might indeed be unique.  We just don’t have enough facts to use the formulas at all.  I might have to look more closely at that issue because it is still compelling to me and I’m not sure why.

Still, is that last argument just a statistical argument?  And are statistics evidence?  I don’t know the answer to the first question, and I’m not clear on the second.

I also brought up the problem of induction and that I have a sense that, if you dispense with the arbitrary as defined this way, you’d never have any reason to explore or use your imagination or come up with a new hypothesis.  I do know that a hypothesis requires evidence, but what comes before the hypothesis?  If it is arbitrary to speculate about something with no evidence, then what drives us to explore?  Sometimes you come across evidence you weren’t looking for, but sometimes you need to be looking.

So what other type of evidence would bring ET life into the realm of the possible?  We didn’t get any further on that, but we did use a great analogy of a civilization on an island that has never seen any land mass except their island.  Would it be arbitrary for them to speculate that there might be land other than their own, let alone other humans or even life?  We agreed yes, which supports Adam and K.’s position.  But we asked what would be the evidence to make it possible.  We thought of them observing land under the ocean and how it rises and falls, and that they could conclude that it might rise above the surface in areas other than their own.  That would be evidence.  Also, if they saw birds not from their island, that would be evidence.  (Adam said he thought that the bird example really happened in history.  If anybody knows about that, please comment.)  We also thought that, without more evidence for these islanders, it would be as reasonable (which is not at all) for them to speculate about another land mass in the sky as somewhere else in the water.  That analogy was helpful in realizing how your own context can lead you astray.

Then finally, this brought up the question about why it is so compelling to think of the possibility of life on other worlds.  K. speculated that there is just so much fiction about aliens that it “feels natural.”  Maybe.

I identify at least one mistake in my thinking about the concept arbitrary.  I used the concrete “god” as a stand-in for the concept.  And in the past the concept of god might have been arbitrary speculation, but today, it is false, so now I’m confusing “arbitrary” and “false.”  Even if god were arbitrary, you can’t hold a concept properly with one concrete as a stand-in.  I definitely need to work on my understanding of arbitrary.

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. I spoke to my parents over Skype.  They’ve spent the past couple of weeks on the beaches of Mexico and are now headed inland.  They’re planning to see Mexico City this trip, which should be interesting.
  2. We had such a great weekend with our friends from Chicago.  I’m exhausted mentally and physically. 
  3. Samantha swung on the big-girl swing at the playground today. 

Three Good Things for the day:

  1. We watched more Cosmos.  Carl Sagan is second only to Ayn Rand in his glorification of reason and his worship of the mind of man.
  2. We visited the Jefferson Memorial.  “I have sworn upon the altar of God eternal hostility against every from of tyranny over the mind of man.”
  3. Nurturing the development of my daughter’s mind is a form of that same worship and respect.

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