June 2009

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Ironman

My best friend just qualified for the Ironman World Championship in Hawaii this October!  I’m not sure I even comprehend how big a deal this is, but I know it is big.  Here’s what Wikipedia says about those who qualify for this race:

The Ironman format remains unchanged, and the Hawaiian Ironman is still regarded as the most honored and prestigious triathlon event to win worldwide…

Although thousands of athletes worldwide compete at an Ironman event each year, the vast majority aim simply to just finish the course if they are first timers, or set a PR (personal record) time if they’ve raced this distance before. Only very talented athletes realistically compete for a spot in Hawaii [the World Championship], and just finishing an Ironman race is often the highlight of many triathletes’ career.

I think she gets some bragging rights for such a great accomplishment, so I asked her to write up something for my blog.  She sent me this interesting explanation of the race, how you qualify, and what her goals are:

Ironman (capital “I”) is a registered trademark of the World Triathlon Corporation (WTC).  WTC owns some Ironman races and licenses other triathlons to become official Ironman races.  Although “ironman” is generally used synonymously with “2.4 mile swim, 112 mile bike, 26.2 mile [run]“, there are non-Ironman brand races of these same distances, but legally, they cannot be called Ironman or even ironman (I think they now use the term “full-distance”).  Only Ironman brand races have qualifying spots for the Ironman World Championships in Hawaii.  There are currently 22 Ironman races all over the world; most of the Ironman races in North America (7 races this year) will have a total of 70 Hawaii spots for age group athletes, while some of the international Ironmans have fewer participants and thus give away fewer spots to Hawaii.  My age group (W35-39, usually the largest of the female age groups) usually has 4 spots.  Most Ironman races have over 2000 participants and I believe the Hawaii race usually has about 1500-1600.  In addition, there are about 30 half Ironman (exactly half of the full-distance: 1.2 mile swim, 56 mile bike, 13.1 mile run) races internationally each year and about 8 of these offer qualifying spots for Hawaii with each age group having only 1-2 spots.  Hawaii spots do “roll-down” so if someone passes on the spot or has already qualified at another race, the spot rolls down to the next place.
 
After my 2nd Ironman in 2007 when I was 7th in my age group, I realized I could possibly qualify for Hawaii if I could put together a good enough race (“good enough” is vague, I know, but generally for me it means not losing too much time on the bike portion and then, since running is my strength, running the marathon I know I’m capable of.  After 4 Ironmans, I still have not run a good Ironman marathon but hopefully this year I have it more figured out!).  In my last 3 Ironman races, I’ve been close to qualifying but just not quite close enough.
 
So in order to qualify, you have to finish high enough in your age group to get a qualifying spot either outright or via a roll-down.  In my race this past weekend [a half-Ironman], I finished 3rd in my age group and there were 2 Hawaii spots (I expected only 1).  The girl in 2nd place had already qualified so the spot rolled down to me and I took it! :)  Half Ironman races with Hawaii spots are usually very competitive so I wasn’t even thinking about qualifying at this race.  [My husband] and I just wanted to do this race in Hawaii because we love Hawaii.  My main goal was to qualify at the Ironman I’m doing this July in Lake Placid.  Even though the pressure is now off for Lake Placid, I still want to have a really strong race there and approach the race as if I’m still trying to qualify.  I’m not going to change my training plan or take it easy in the race because I want to put together that “good enough” race.  Doing the Hawaii Ironman will be a bonus, more for the experience of being there and participating, with no expectations or time goals.

Impressive!

Sung to the tune of This Old Man:

Baby Sam
Baby Sam
Tell me, tell me, what’s your plan
Doctor, lawyer, maybe spaceman
You can do anything, yes you can

I don’t think there is anything on the internet that gives me more consistent smiles than Dooce’s photos of her dog, Chuck, balancing things on his head.  And here is the video that started it all.

Samantha is 33 months old.  That’s two-and-three-quarters years old to you and me.  May was a busy month for her.  She had visits from both sets of grandparents so we did a lot of fun, new things.  Everybody jokes about grandparents spoiling their kids, but what I’ve found is that I am the one who spoils her when they visit.  I don’t seem to be able to carry on a conversation and pay attention to the details of how I relate with Sam at the same time.  So I let her get away with interrupting conversations, I pick her up if she screams, I spoon food into her mouth if she doesn’t want to eat, I let her run around the house with sippy cups to avoid spills, and all sorts of other things that I don’t normally do.  It’s a good reminder of just how much effort goes into all of these little things that make up allowing her to be independent.  We loved having the grandparents around, though.  It was a great month.

Samantha is doing a lot of new things this month.  She has always made up “conversations” for her dolls and Little People, and acted out scenarios with them.  Now, she has started telling stories.  It’s pretty basic and the sequence of events doesn’t always make sense.  She might say something like:

ONCE PON TIME. LI-DA BEY-DA [that's Little Bear] LIVE COTTAGE WOODS WIT MUDDA [mother] BEY-DA, FADA [father] BEY-DA.  LI-DA BEY-DA PAINT YELLOW. FALL DOWN.  WANT GO FISHING WIT FADA BEY-DA. MISS FADA BEY-DA. SAD. CRY. MUDDA BEY-DA TELL FADA BEY-DA BACK TOMOWOW.  LIDA BEY-DA SLEEP. WAKE UP. FADA BEY-DA HOME. YEA! DEEEEEE END.

Sam has also taken to adding DOT-COM to the end of many sentences, which I find hilarious.  She must have picked it up from radio commercials in the car.  We adults don’t notice it much, but if you don’t know the meaning of all our words, you might think DOT-COM means something like, “Thank you, goodnight,” or “The End.”

Sam can spell her name.  I mean, she can say the letters, S-A-M because she has heard them in that order so many times.  I know, it doesn’t mean anything, but I still love it.  Here’s a clip of her “spelling”:

 

I am now certain that Samantha loves piano music.  She’s been asking for PIANO for months, but I was never sure if it was just the only instrument that she knew the name of well enough to ask for when she desired any music.  But it has become clear that she knows a piano when she hears one, and that she likes it better than anything else.  She loves all kinds of music, but piano just sends her off the deep end of joy.  I hope I can get a video of a moment when we are flipping through radio stations and we come upon some classical piece with a piano.  She’ll close her eyes, lift her head, raise her arms towards the sky, and start spinning in her special Samantha dance.  It’s a beautiful thing.

Sam has long been pointing out things from her car seat, but lately she seems to always know where we are when we drive around.  School, the ice cream shop, the playground…she practically gives me directions.  Maybe we didn’t need to buy that GPS device after all.

Sam has three new teeth coming in.  Don’t let doctors tell you that it is a myth that teething symptoms include fever and diarrhea.  We weren’t totally sure, but it’s been a long time since she had a new tooth and we clearly saw these symptoms, along with drooling, biting, and general testiness, before we figured it out and stuck our fingers in there to check.  Yup, teeth numbers 17, 18, and 19 have made an appearance.  Number 20 is the last of the baby teeth (which were supposed to be in about 9 months ago), and then we’ll get a reprieve for about 4 years when that crazy thing happens when the first set falls out and you have to do it all over again.  Then you get braces.

Samantha had her first major “I hate mommy” phase this month.  Well, she didn’t hate me, but she certainly liked everybody else better.  It didn’t last too long, but it was hard on me.  When it was over, it was over, and we’ve been getting along better than ever since then.

Another big development is Samantha’s new fears.  She has become afraid of lawnmowers, walking in the street where the cars go, and thunder.  Luckily, so far, she is not terribly afraid.  She just cowers a bit and wants to be comforted.  But the other night, a thunderstorm hit just as she was going to sleep.  I heard her start screaming in fear when it was booming, so I broke my usual rule and went to her room.  She was scared enough that I let her come downstairs and watch TV with me until the storm had passed.  When I told her that the thunder was gone and it was time for her to go back to her room and go to sleep, she started kicking and screaming and saying, MORE THUNDER! MORE THUNDER!  So much for that.

The Objectivist Round Up can be found at Erosophia this week.  I’m going to make a bit of time tonight to read the posts that intrigue me.

Leonard Peikoff has written a new introduction to Ayn Rand’s We The Living.  The latest paperback edition of the book just hit the shelves – you can see the new cover here.  I picked up a copy just to read LP’s introduction, which, in his podcast, he describes as one of the best short pieces he’s written.  I think I know why he is so proud.

He said the purpose of the introduction was to bring out why the novel’s theme is universal and not just a condemnation of Soviet Russia in particular.  He does so, first by naming the two causes of totalitarianism – faith and self-sacrifice – and then by giving historical examples of the manifestations of those errors and of their counterparts – reason and love of values.  He first does so chronologically, skimming history from the ancient Greeks to the twentieth century, then he examines how “different” totalitarian states are fundamentally the same.  He tells the amazing story of the Italian film version of the novel, which is an eloquent example of his thesis.  Finally, he brings us to what we care about the most – the present – citing numerous examples of calls to faith and sacrifice in our own culture, and concludes with:

This book is not about your long-gone grandparents, but about your still-growing children.

He accomplishes all of this in 2 pages.

I admire Leonard Peikoff tremendously.  Aside from the incalculable benefits I have gained directly from his books and lectures, his intellectual growth is inspirational to me.  Dr. Peikoff admits that he was a rationalist as a young man, and he worked for decades to change his method of thinking.  Now he seems to be a paragon of the inductive method.  I can’t wait to read his forthcoming book, The DIM Hypothesis.  I attended his lectures on the subject two years ago in Telluride, and it is clear that this is a man committed to facts.  He is steeped in facts.  His podcasts show a man who has a detailed, deep and integrated knowledge of history.  What a transformation!  I tend towards rationalism myself so Dr. Peikoff is an intellectual mentor to me, at least from afar. 

The issue of being fact-oriented is something I work on every day.  I know I’m getting better when I take the position that one should follow the news.  Thanks, Dr. Peikoff!

Adventure Box

The Mossoffs are a young family (although the individuals composing it are not so young), and until now we’ve been a bit unsettled, but we’ve managed to start at least one family tradition that I think will stick.  I call it the Adventure Box.  Every year at Christmas time, we decorate a shoe box in gift wrap and put it on a shelf that is easy to access.  Throughout the year, we put mementos from trips, special occasions, along with all the greeting cards we receive, into the box.  Next Christmas, we go through the box and label each item so that we won’t forget what it meant.  Then we write the year on the box and put it away and start a new one.

It’s a simple idea, but we love doing it.  It gives us a place to put all of those things that you don’t want to throw away, but which have no “home.”   And we don’t stress out about getting a souvenir from every single place we go, but having the Adventure Box in mind gives us something to think about when we’re at a new place, and helps to tie all those experiences together.  Going through the box is a great way to wrap up the year, and every single time, we’re surprised at how many fun things we did.

This year, we didn’t get to the adventure box until May.  We’ve never been so tardy, but moving for the fourth time right before Christmas made it difficult.  Here are some of the things we found in the 2008 box:

  • A matchbook from the restaurant in New Orleans where we had our wedding reception – Adam went there on business last year and picked it up for me as a little reminder
  • Maps of Disneyworld
  • A homemade Halloween greeting card from my parents to Samantha
  • A ticket stub from the park where we celebrated Samantha’s second birthday with Adam’s parents
  • My personal favorite: a lollipop wrapper from the candy dish on the desk of Clarence Thomas, whose office I got to see on a private tour (but no, I didn’t get to meet him)

Where else would you keep all of these precious things?  I used to stick them in a file, but it would get full and I’d throw them away after a while.  Even if you stick them in a box, the labeling is critical.  We found that we’d almost forgotten a few things by May.

I think family traditions are important.  A tradition is a concretization of your family’s culture.  It should reflect a value or attitude that is important in your family.  If it does, it will become a fixture in your psyche that shapes who you are.  Adam brought the spirit of the Adventure Box into our family with his personal edict of, “No Regrets.”  When he is faced with a decision that involves some risk or maybe a lot of effort for an unknown payoff, he thinks about which decision he might regret ten years down the line, and makes the opposite choice.  We try not to let opportunities to experience the new pass us by, and to live life based on love of values, not fear of failure.  The Adventure Box represents this attitude perfectly, and so it has deep meaning for us.

It looks like Samantha has come down with a cold.  Either that, or she broke her nose.  We went to the local water park on Saturday (which was awesome) and she fell (which was not awesome), scraping up her forehead, eyebrow, nose, and shin.  I didn’t see the actual fall, so I don’t know how hard she hit, and now she has a runny nose and a fever.  Her nose looked a tiny bit swollen so Adam was concerned and did some research and, wouldn’t you know it, the symptoms of a broken nose are similar to these cold symptoms.  I hate this part of parenting.  Do I take her to the doctor?  I hesitate because it seems to cost a hundred dollars each time we go (yes, we have “insurance”) and doctors are useless drug-pushers anyway. 

On top of that, the dog is sick.  He’s been puking occasionally for over a week.  Should I take him to the vet?  Same analysis, except the cost is usually double.  Sorry, Toby, you’re on your own.

Adam is the home-diagnosis-home-remedy guy in the family and he left for a business trip this morning.  I really, really hate this.  Anyway, I may have a lot of time for blogging, or I might have none.  But either way, this is one time that I’m thankful for TV.

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