July 2010

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Songs

Sung to the tune of, Swing Low, Sweet Chariot:

Aim low, sweet Sama-lama
Put the pee in the potty
You’ve got to aim down
To make the tinkle sound
Put the pee in the potty

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Sam didn’t do too much “school” work in the past week, but it’s a wonderful option to have when we are not busy with other fun activities.  I think it is still working out well that she just chooses her Montessori work when she wants to.  She might go from playing with her dolls to working seriously on polishing, to torturing the cat.

In the past week, Sam did more polishing and cutting, and did the metal insets one time.  (I’m shocked that she isn’t working with those more often.)  We added a few new activities.  Since she can’t use the hole punch yet, I punched a row of holes in a small piece of paper and showed her how to hold it on top of another piece of paper and fill in the holes with a felt-tip marker to make rows of holes.  She liked that, but only for about 5 minutes.

I also made my own version of the spindle box.  I wanted to do the number rods first, but I hadn’t figured out how to make them.  Luckily, Sam seems to be doing well with the spindle box, which in my case, is an egg carton and macaroni:

You just dump out all the macaroni and then put the right number of pieces back in each cup.  The first time Sam tried it she was all over the map, but today she got them all right except for 8 and 9.  It’s fun to watch her progress.

We also did some non-Montessori games that were fun and educational.  I had brought home some dice for her from Las Vegas, so we played “highest wins.”  We each rolled one die and then figured out who had the higher number.  Sam liked that a lot except that we had some bad luck and I won much too often for her taste.  (She is just beginning to want to win games.)

Then we played with a game called First Words Puzzle Set which is just a huge set of cardboard cards, each with a picture and a word, and each of which is split into two puzzles pieces.  If we only use about 5 cards, Sam can put the puzzle pieces together and she can read some of the words.  She likes to do that kind of game with me but occasionally she will play it by herself.  This video is from a few weeks ago, but it shows her playing Zingo by herself, and how pleased she is when she “wins:”

Along with the Objectivist Round Up, I occasionally submit posts to the Carnival of Homeschooling.  I hope to submit more and more as time goes by!  Check out the latest edition at The Common Room.

Wowza, I had a busy and fun weekend full of social events.  We attended a barbecue on Saturday, had friends over on Sunday and then went to the water park, and Sam and I spent all day today swimming with old friends from Michigan who were in town.

A few highlights:

  • Our friends’ 20 month old child – that’s just over a year and a half old – has hands and feet larger than Sammy’s.  Sammy will be 4 in just over a month!  She’s tiny.
  • A few hours after we arrived, the water park closed in anticipation of a thunderstorm, which we knew might happen.  What we didn’t know was that this was a tree-crasher, power-knocker-outer kind of storm.  As the hundreds of swimmers were filtering out of the water park, the wind started up and caused a dust storm in the unpaved parking lot.  We had four little girls who all just froze in their tracks in the middle of the parking lot and screamed, and I couldn’t blame them.  Somehow, we herded them all into the cars without anyone getting blinded.  But by the time we got home and made hot chocolate, the girls all seemed to think it was kind of fun, and I couldn’t blame them for that, either.  I do love thunderstorms.
  • Sam had a breakthrough swimming day today.  She’s had quite a bit of swimming this year but no lessons yet, and we’re still trying to get her to put her face in the water or go under.  Today we hung out with two boys, 3 and 6 years old, and I think it helped her to spend so much time with them.  She draped her arms over the Styrofoam “noodle” and let me pull her around on it while she kicked her feet, and she sat on the edge of the pool and slid in where I would catch her before she went under.  Knowing Sam, she’ll be ready for swim lessons just as the season ends.  I’ll have to find out if the local indoor pool has lessons.

Sam skipped all of her naps, unless you call passing out in the car for 20 minutes a nap.  She was so exhausted tonight that she threw a tantrum the likes of which I haven’t seen in months.  It made me realize that we have been over the horrible hump which was the “terrible threes” for quite a while now.  From last September through February or March, Sam was a very difficult child.  Well, since I have no frame of reference except her, I really can only say that she was difficult based on the Samantha Standard, but it was tough, let me tell you.

I’m glad that particular storm is over.  I don’t enjoy being hit, even with Sammy’s tiny little hands.

I seem to have infected Sam with my own love for taking off in an airplane, but she does still hate loud noise:

My 3-year-old is a well-seasoned traveler.  On the airplane returning from Florida, as we were taxiing back to the gate, Sam looked up at the ceiling of the airplane.  I wondered what she was looking at until she said, DING!  Then she looked at me with a sly smile and said, THE SEATBELT LIGHT JUST WENT OFF…JUST PRETENDING!

Me:  Sammy, where do you want your tattoo?
Sammy:  ON MY HAND.
Me [teasing]:  On your arm?
Sammy:  NO.
Me:  On your leg?
Sammy: NO.
Me:  On your belly?
Sammy:  NO.
Me:  On your butt?
Sammy [in an exasperated tone, as if I were a dimwit]:  NO, MOMMY, BECAUSE I COULDN’T SEE IT THERE.

I love that she’s concerned with what she can see, and not what others can!

LB of 3 Ring Binder is hosting this week’s Objectivist Round Up.

This was supposed to be a picture of Sam playing in the car, but I think her parents’ reflection in the window is what makes it a great shot:

I can now say that I am officially a homeschooler!  Well, sort of.  Sam will still go to Montessori preschool, but we got started with “summer school at home” this week and we’re having a blast!

I had intended to start out in a formal, Montessori way: a dedicated time for school, starting with circle time; a separate space for the Montessori materials, away from toys and other distractions; and me 100% prepared to give proper demonstrations for everything.

Not!

I didn’t have time to do any work on this project at OCON as I had intended.  We got home and I was totally swamped but I knew that if I didn’t get started right away, the whole summer might pass us by.  I wanted to jump right in, but I only had a few things set up, and some were only half-ready, and I didn’t know the proper way to do anything much at all.  I guess “prepared environment” really means a lot of prep work, huh?    

I did have a few things ready, so I decided to just allow Sam to work on them during the normal course of the day.  This destroys any ambition of having her concentrate for long periods of time or being totally free to choose any work that she is interested in.  I’d like to move towards that goal, but for now, at least she spends some time doing structured activities independently. 

Here is what our little homeschool looks like:

I don’t have enough open shelving, so the drawers have to suffice.  Some of them contain Montessori work and some contain other toys.  Not ideal.  The colored bins on the right hold regular toys and you can see a doll-house on the floor right next to the table. 

I had to put the metal insets in a different room because they took up so much space:

We have two mostly unused bedrooms in this house, either of which could serve as a dedicated school room and solve these problems, but they are being used for storage now, so it would be an enormous effort to clean them out.  Also, they are not on the main level of the house where my computer is, and where the kitchen is.  I have a feeling that Sam would not take well to working in an isolated room like that, and I would have nothing to do.  I do plan to use one of those bedrooms for homeschooling when it’s a full-time thing, at which time I’ll move my office into the same room.

For our work, we started with polishing pennies, the metal insets, and cutting along a line.  For the pennies, I set up all the needed items on a tray:

I demonstrated how to place one penny on a napkin (which she has to get from her kitchen cabinet), to take a Q-Tip, dip it in the lemon juice and roll it on the side of the glass to avoid drips, and to rub the penny.  We had a few shiny, clean pennies, so I showed her what the penny should look like.  When she is satisfied (and I leave this up to her), she puts the shiny pennies in the other cup.  (For all of you die-hards out there, yes I do put the dirty pennies on the left and the clean ones on the right – always left-to-right!  This was how the tray looked after she finished.)  As soon as I can remember to buy actual lemons at the store, we’ll add squeezing the lemons as part of the process.  For now, I refill the little cup with bottled lemon juice every night.

I set up the metal insets for her and reviewed for myself how they are to be used.  So I’m prepared to demonstrate, but she hasn’t used them yet.  As part of the set-up, I had to cut a lot of paper into squares the same size as the metal insets, and I ended up with a lot of small pieces of paper.  I decided to use it for “cutting along the line.”  This is exactly what it sounds like: the child uses scissors to cut along a line drawn on paper.  I created a series of paper with lines and Sam spent about an hour working on this on Friday, so I suspect I’m going to have to make a new set of paper with lines every night for a while.  Here is a video of what I made for this exercise:

After I took the video I decided to eliminate the papers with more than one line.  I didn’t do that in the first go-around and now I’m thinking it was a bad idea.  Another part of this exercise that Sammy really likes is that when she cuts the squiggles, she ends up with two pieces of paper that look a bit like jigsaw puzzle pieces.  She enjoys putting them back together again.  The paper and a pair of scissors are on a tray just like the one for the pennies, and she can bring it to her table to work on any time she chooses.

I also tried to teach her how to use a hole-punch to make rows of holes, but she didn’t have the hand strength to use it.  I have another, similar exercise dealing with rows that I’ll set up this week, though.  I’m really glad that I wrote up my earlier blog post detailing all of the activities I wanted to do – I’ve been referring to it often.

So far, this is going really well!  It’s low-pressure and we both are having fun.  If it continues to work well, I might not ever make it more formal.  Thank god she has her real Montessori school nine months out of the year.  I think it would be really, really hard, if not impossible (without other children) to create the same kind of environment at home.  But I must say, this is an auspicious beginning for both of us!

No words necessary:

Quotes

Driving around Florida:

MOMMY, LOOK AT THAT PINK HOTEL OVER THERE.  IT LOOKS LIKE A CASTLE.  MAYBE BARBIE LIVES IN THERE.  MAYBE SNOW WHITE LIVES IN THERE.

[pause]

YEAH, BUT SNOW WHITE CAN’T LIVE IN THERE BECAUSE IT’S JUST A HOTEL.

This week’s edition of The Objectivist Round Up can be found at The Playful Spirit.

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